With a busy schedule and little time to worry about fashion (I know, shame on me), I found myself feeling drab and a little like the nerdy chick sitting in the corner at a party. I decided to take control of things and climb my way back up to my rightful place on the fashion pedestal. By just making a few smart choices and buying versatile pieces, I have found a simple way to look fabulous even if I get dressed with my eyes closed.
-Comfort is the Best Place to Start
When you are comfortable you feel good. When you feel good you exude confidence. And confidence looks good on everyone. I am talking about comfort with regards to both fit and style.
First, Fit – if something doesn’t fit right you will spend your time pulling and tugging at it. A piece of clothing should be comfortable as you move in it (because we all know that life does not stand still). Something might look wonderful when you are just standing in front of a mirror, but the moment you turn, sit or breathe - it bunches, rides up or pops open. Move around when you try things on and make sure you can move comfortably.
Now, Style - Sure that celebrity looks super cute in that too-cool fedora or those dinner- plate-sized earrings. But if YOU aren’t comfortable wearing hats, or big earrings aren’t your thing, then DON’T do it. You won’t be comfortable and it will show. If you are not confident in it, you will feel stupid and therefore it will LOOK stupid.
-Know your Body and What Looks Good on You
Not every body type looks good in high-waist pants, and the “color of the season” isn’t flattering on every skin tone. Trends seem like a great way to keep up with fashion, and you may be tempted to duplicate the latest looks of the super trendy, but stop and think of old pictures of yourself from the ‘80s and ‘90s and decide whether or not you really want more pictures that will make you cringe. Know what is flattering for your shape and coloring and stick to it. Also keep in mind fabric. Not every kind of fabric drapes the same on every body. Choose fabrics that compliment not complicate.
-Trends Aren’t All Bad
So, now you are thinking you will be stuck with the same old look and that is sure to get boring. Not so. Accessories are any fashion plate’s best friend. If you want to sport the latest looks do it with accessories (jewelry, handbags, shoes, sunglasses etc.). Accessories are less expensive than clothes, and different accessories can make the same outfit look completely different. They allow you to breathe new life into your favorite, most comfortable pieces that you want to wear all the time. And if you do it right with accessories, no one will even realize that you have been wearing the same thing for 3 days straight.
-Versatility Makes Life Easier (especially with fashion)
When you go shopping choose pieces that can be mixed and matched with just about anything in your closet (this is the part that allows you to get dressed with your eyes closed). This is ideal because no matter what shirt, pants or pair of shoes you grab in your mad rush to get to work on time, they will go together perfectly.
It will take time and quite a bit of experimenting, but it is a small price to pay for always looking fabulously pulled together. You will also find that you aren’t as unhappy with your “less-than-perfect” body parts that God gave you, because - Damn, you look GOOD.